Sunday, July 1, 2012

Fuck you people

No, seriously, I mean it this time. I'm so fucking pissed off now you wouldn't believe. Let me tell all you fuckheads something:

Soooo, about an hour ago I received a message from a friend of mine. She told me that she had received tonight an sms, which was in Finnish so I'm not gonna bother to post it here, although I have it. In a nutshell it said that the sender is not sure if this is the right person, but that if it is she should know that she was called whore-ish looking in my blog. Actually fuck it, I'll post the actual message, some of you are bound to be Finns anyway, and probably the asshole who wrote this reads this blog entry as well:

"En oo ihan varma ootko oikea henkilö tai onko oikea numero, mutta jos olet se tyttö joka oli Janin seurassa On the rockissa ja Pub adjutantissa niin ajattelin että sun pitäisi tietää että sua sanottiin huorahtavan näköiseksi Janin blogissa."


First of all, the actual comment where someone, surprisingly enough anonymously, made the comment in question had somehow gone unnoticed by me. I try to read all of them, but I sometimes miss some as I might be busy and not have time to go through them on a regular basis. The comment in itself was pretty fucking moronic, saying that this friend of mine looks "whore-ish and looked like not a nice person". I mean, how the fuck do you draw these conclusions about someone not being a nice person just by how they look???

If I saw this comment back when it was written (8th of June) I probably still would not have erased it, as it is so fucking dumb it just makes the writer look like a total retard, which he/she (most likely she, I have a hard time seeing a guy writing such a comment) apparently is.

What bothers me even more, actually WAY more than the idiotic comment left in this blog is the fact that someone actually went through the effort of finding out what my friend's name is and then figuring out her phone number and texting her anonymously (it doesn't show any number, I guess it was sent from the internet. Rest assured if there was a number I would've called it already). Why the fuck would you do that? Why are you FUCKERS harassing people I know now? I've always been very strict about keeping my personal life and my professional side separate, and I consider this a breach of that line. Only once before have I addressed anything like this publicly before, which was when my girlfriend at the time was being called a whore and whatnot on a "fan site" or whatever the fuck it was.

You might think I'm over-reacting here, but put yourself in my shoes for a while. It's nice that even being somehow associated with me can get my friends receive weird messages from total strangers, and of course getting them called whores or such. Having to deal with just me is probably a downside enough, I don't think there should be any additional baggage that comes with it. You can hate me as much as you want and write all the shit you want, as long as it's ABOUT ME. When you start bringing other people in who have never done anything to deserve it and who you don't even fucking know, that's when I get pissed. WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE???

BTW, as I'm pretty sure the person who wrote the sms is reading this, my friend's reaction was "What am I supposed to do with this information? Why should I care?". Could've probably written that to you herself, if you just had the balls to send a message that could actually be answered.

This is again one of those nights when I just want to watch the world burn and drown in its own feces.

One last thing: I know that most of you people out there are nice, wonderful people, my hate is not directed at you. I am just way too pissed at the moment to moderate myself. I'll go and have a cigarette and a drink now and try to hit the hay after my blood pressure comes down to its normal level. Tomorrow I'll continue with the backing vocals.

Over and out.




22 comments:

  1. Know how you're feeling man. Some dude was calling up my girlfriend wanting them two to meet. He'd call her several times a day. Finally, she agreed to meet him so I went in her place to confront him. In the end, he didn't show up and he stopped calling her. Never found out who he was.

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    1. That situation calls for the old "Poodle Prank". Get the dude's number on an advertising, claiming to be donating puppies (make sure to add evil terms to it, like: "If I don't get rid of those vermin creatures by next tuesday, I'm just gonna throw them away") and hope for inumerous pet-lover angry calls.

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  2. It´s called envy, and it´s typical of the poor in the spirit who are too weak to chase their own happiness, so their only pleasure is disturbing the others...

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  3. Based on your reaction I'm thinking that she is maybe more than just a friend.

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    1. I think it's pretty obvious to all of us reading this...

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    2. Yeah, because THAT was the point I was trying to make... *facepalm*

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    3. I think people can react like that even if it is only a friend. And @ Jani, I totally understand your reaction, that whole thing sounds so unbelievable.

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    4. I didn't get that impression from reading Jani's post, and I'd definitely have reacted that way if any of my friends got treated like that. Caring about someone =/= "more than friends".

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    5. They've been seen together in gigs and I for one saw them hugging/kissing etc, outside a hotel before a gig in may (the pub adjutantti-gig mentioned in the famous sms), and in a bar after the gig. It is his GF his talking about.

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    6. And here you are again, crossing the line of privacy.

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  4. I remember that fact, you had mentioned on myspace, right?

    I'm sorry that people do not lose the opportunity to break your balls attacking you and your friends.

    As the Poet said: "Non ti curar di loro ma guarda e passa...".
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    Ps:Do not go overboard with the smoke if tomorrow you have to record ... :)

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  5. The only thing I don't like in your reaction is how you talk shit about yourself again. I know it is your blog, your rules, and that you don't give a fuck about much of what we have to say. But, you really should stop talking of yourself like you would be a fucking retard who can't do anything and that is ugly as fuck.. I know you might don't really think that of yourself, but there is always a bit of truth.. so, I just want to say : You did more that many will ever get near to do. Gotta up that self-esteem !

    And sorry for that threatening you and your friend had suffer..
    Enjoy your drink ! ;)

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  6. I'm very sorry for your friend.It's not a relevant if she is more than friend. She is private person and don't deserve to treat that way.
    Person who send message like that is really stupid and childish.

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  7. Don't pay attention on human-bacteria hybrid feeding acid nutrient medium.

    Internet gives people anonymity and impunity. As you can see not all of them are able to use these privileges in reasonable way.

    That's right, most of us are nice, sweet, marvellous, great and of course good persons so try concentrate on us ;))

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  8. It's like in the movie "The Crush" with Cary Elwes. She (pranker)loves you but she's crazy bitch and must die.

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  9. What the hell is wrong with people...first of all, who would even post a comment like that on a blog. And second, why be so stupid and send sms like that.

    So sorry for you for having to deal with people like that, and so sorry for your friend too. I hope she's ok and not very sad?

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  10. Whose life is so boring to do that? What a loser hahaha

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  11. It may not be "exaggeration", just you do in defense by those that you wants and loves, it is best not give care, Is a person with no social life :) ...

    Kiss from Mexico. Greetings Jani :)

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  12. Oh Jesus, that's just crazy :O Sorry for your friend and also for you, people can be so fucking stupid. Just know that there are people there, here and everywhere who really appreciate you and respect your privacy and would never do stuff like that or throw stupid-ass-comments. What do these people get for themselves when they do stuff like this? When you call someone "whore-ish" and whatever it doesn't make you look cool...it's just moronic to put other people down just to make yourself feel good and beautiful and wattafuck. I bet it's just some girls who have crazy fantasies of you Jani, and they can't stand the fact of you being around this friend of yours. Usually people who trash other people, beautiful and nice people, are butt-ugly and mean themselves with an IQ of an insect.

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  13. Wow...I sure hope for your sake and for your friends sake that this post would put an end to stuff like this. Hope this was a one time thing and there are no more messages. People (or in this case I'm thinking fanatic fangirls) are fucking idiots. I hope your friend is okay? Based on her "why should I care?"-reaction I'm thinking she is :) By the way, good luck with the upcoming album! Can't wait. What was your guitar of choice for the album?

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  14. *belated applause* 100% behind you, Jani.

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